Personal culture journal

The joke usually has a point. The point usually has feelings.

wisdomofpj is a personal culture journal by PJ — essays, satire, domestic evidence, internet nonsense, and sincere overthinking about growing up without pretending to have already figured it out.

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Relationships4 min read

Letter Up Above

Some conversations do not end just because the other person is gone. This is a letter to the man whose absence still feels unfinished.

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Latest writing

Recent dispatches from the overthinking department.

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August 9, 2022Relationships4 min read

Preordained Partings

Uncle PJ returns to talk about relationships, not just romantic ones, and why some connections arrive already carrying their ending in the fine print. Also, naturally, a brief and completely necessary detour into influencers.

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June 28, 2019Satire4 min read

The Secrets of Bros

A world-renowned researcher returns with a confidential report on bros: rom-com denial, imaginary signals, missed real signals, handshake politics, and the strange emotional delay built into the average male brain.

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Departments

The recurring evidence.

Domestic Evidence

Objects, rooms, clothes, towels, cupboards, and the strange places memory chooses to live.

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Coming soon. The evidence is being gathered.

About the voice

A living archive, not a polished literary estate.

I’m PJ: software engineer, systems thinker by habit, writer whenever life leaves a sharp enough object on the table.

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